Does anyone know a story that does not include life domination and life ruining stuff but focuses more on classic fun hypnosis romance?
I remember some romantic hypnosis stories, they certainly exist.
And I’m sure some of our resourceful users will find and link them here, right guys? 
One good way is the search function.
In this link
I’ve set up a search for stories in the ‘hypnosis’ category which were tagged with either ‘love’ or ‘romance’. That’s a good point to start.
I’m sure there are more though, because tagging is not Fail-Safe.
I’ve got one I started work on that I wanna get back to at some point, but I realized partway through that I’d made the start of it a bit too much like Latter Days, so if I ever go back to it, I’ll have to figure out a different beginning.
So I have long thought that it would be hard for a person to have a true, real relationship with someone they hypnotized to love them. Which is why I I think most such relationships are clearly master-pet, dom-sub rather than boyfriends/partners.
But it does lead to me having the idea of two gay men getting into a relationship first before adding the hypnosis element to it. If one adds that the other partner remembers what happens when hypnotized then the equality remains.
Of course I would probably add other brought into the sex fun through the one guy’s ability at hypnosis.
On ruining life, yeah I agree. To me the power and fun of hypnosis is to bring the other person towards happiness at the submission while also letting them still have a life when not called to serve and submit. The idea of controlling say a cop or businessman or doctor who on a day to day level they live normal lives with work and friends and family but then they get called to submit, is hot to me.
I have one called “Getting Anthony”. Watch and the first chapter will be posted in a few days. I’ll send the first in today.